Monday, September 26, 2011

Tea Party Kit Sale Extended Through 10/31, Only $24.99 While Supplies Last!!!


It is our belief that when the lazy afternoons of summer ends and a new school year arrives, it is the “pawfect” time for celebration! School bells are ringing for class to begin, as are cash registers for new clothes, books and computers.

The Storybook Tea Kit Company is keenly aware of this. Therefore, to help children transition from summertime to school time while lending help to parents, the price of  our tea party kit (Alice’s Pawfect Tea-Party™) will be only  $24.99* ** through the end of October (regular price $40.00).  This is the very same tea-party kit that was launched earlier this year, which so many of you have already read about (some have sampled too) on your favorite blog.


Alice’s Pawfect Tea-Party™ is a tea kit book complete with sumptuous chocolate, delectable cookies, candy cake and cinnamon herb tea, focusing on Chapter 7 from Lewis Carroll’s Alice in Wonderland. Our tea party kit connect kids with classic literature the old fashioned way, allowing them to dream and experience the feel of a real book while having a spot of tea.


In the story, Alice returns from wonderland and guides you back down the rabbit hole. Together you will meet the Mad Hatter and all of Alice’s chums. She will explain what truly a “pawfect” tea-party is!
Click here to purchase your tea party kit today,
while supplies last!
**US purchases only                                                  *8.75% CA tax for residents.
**Offer expires October 31st, 2011                           *Shipping & Handling added.
 

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

Learning Through Alice In Wonderland


Major Themes


Growth into Adulthood
This theme is central to both books. Alice's adventures parallel the journey from childhood to adulthood. She comes into numerous new situations in which adaptability is absolutely necessary for success. She shows marked progress throughout the course of the book; in the beginning, she can barely maintain enough composure to keep herself from crying. By the end of the novel, she is self-possessed and able to hold her own against the most baffling Wonderland logic.
Size change
Closely connected to the above theme, size change is another recurring concept. The dramatic changes in size hint at the radical changes the body undergoes during adolescence. The key, once again, is adaptability. Alice's size changes also bring about a change in perspective, and she sees the world from a very different view. In the last trial scene, her growth into a giant reflects her interior growth. She becomes a much stronger, self-possessed person, able to speak out against the nonsensical proceedings of the trial.
Death
This theme is even more present in the second Alice book, Through the Looking Glass. Alice frequently makes references to her own death without knowing it. Childhood is a state of peril in Carroll's view: children are quite vulnerable, and the world presents many dangers. Another aspect of death is its inevitability. Since the Alice books are at root about change (the transition from childhood to adulthood, the passage of time), mortality is inescapable as a theme. Death is the final step of this process of growth. While death is only hinted at in the first book, the second book is saturated with references to mortality and macabre humor.

Monday, September 19, 2011

Alice's Pawfect Tea Party Kit Only $24.99 In September!


It is our belief that when the lazy afternoons of summer ends and a new school year arrives, it is the “pawfect” time for celebration! School bells are ringing for class to begin, as are cash registers for new clothes, books and computers.

The Storybook Tea Kit Company is keenly aware of this. Therefore, to help children transition from summertime to school time while lending help to parents, the price of  our tea party kit (Alice’s Pawfect Tea-Party™) will be only  $24.99* ** in the month of September (regular price $40.00).  This is the very same tea-party kit that was launched earlier this year, which so many of you have already read about (some have sampled too) on your favorite blog.


Alice’s Pawfect Tea-Party™ is a tea kit book complete with sumptuous chocolate, delectable cookies, candy cake and cinnamon herb tea, focusing on Chapter 7 from Lewis Carroll’s Alice in Wonderland. Our tea party kit connect kids with classic literature the old fashioned way, allowing them to dream and experience the feel of a real book while having a spot of tea.


In the story, Alice returns from wonderland and guides you back down the rabbit hole. Together you will meet the Mad Hatter and all of Alice’s chums. She will explain what truly a “pawfect” tea-party is!
Click here to purchase your tea party kit today,
while supplies last!
**US purchases only                                                  *8.75% CA tax for residents.
**Offer expires September 30th                                 *Shipping & Handling added.

Thursday, September 15, 2011

Alice in Wonderland

Fifty years ago the child world was made glad by the appearance of Lewis Carroll’s Alice in Wonderland. It is a universal story and so belongs to all time. It has never gone out of fashion and never will as long as children love wonder-stories and grown-ups have young hearts.
But those who read the book when it was first published found in it a delight which the child of today misses. Fifty years ago certain poems appeared in every reader and were read over and over again until the child was stupid indeed who did not unconsciously learn them by heart. Today there is a new fashion in literature. Children are whirled from one supplementary reader to another, conning graceful rhymes and pretty stories all illustrated with artistic pictures, but the old things have passed away.
All the poems in Alice in Wonderland are parodies upon these once familiar rhymes. Scattered lines of the poems cling to the minds of older people; they remember being once familiar with them; they recognise the metre and can sometimes repeat two or three opening lines, but the complete poem eludes them, and the author they probably never did know. The children of today do not know the verses at all, and as a parody ceases to be a parody without the original poem as a background, the trouble of gathering these originals seems worth while.
After Alice had fallen down the rabbit-hole and had passed through her first transformation, when she shut up like a telescope until she was only ten inches high and then grew bigger and bigger until ‘her head struck the roof of the hall’, she became confused as to her identity. To make sure of it, she tried to repeat a little poem which everybody in those days knew by heart, and to such children is was very funny when it cam out all wrong and she says,
How Doth The Little Crocodile
Lewis Carroll
How doth the little crocodile
Improve his shining tail,
And pour the waters of the Nile
On every golden scale!
How cheerfully he seems to grin,
How neatly spread his claws,
And welcome little fishes in
With gently smiling jaws!

Monday, September 12, 2011

September Tea Party Kit Sale: Visit Wonderland For Only $24.99!


It is our belief that when the lazy afternoons of summer ends and a new school year arrives, it is the “pawfect” time for celebration! School bells are ringing for class to begin, as are cash registers for new clothes, books and computers.

The Storybook Tea Kit Company is keenly aware of this. Therefore, to help children transition from summertime to school time while lending help to parents, the price of  our tea party kit (Alice’s Pawfect Tea-Party™) will be only  $24.99* ** in the month of September (regular price $40.00).  This is the very same tea-party kit that was launched earlier this year, which so many of you have already read about (some have sampled too) on your favorite blog.


Alice’s Pawfect Tea-Party™ is a tea kit book complete with sumptuous chocolate, delectable cookies, candy cake and cinnamon herb tea, focusing on Chapter 7 from Lewis Carroll’s Alice in Wonderland. Our tea party kit connect kids with classic literature the old fashioned way, allowing them to dream and experience the feel of a real book while having a spot of tea.


In the story, Alice returns from wonderland and guides you back down the rabbit hole. Together you will meet the Mad Hatter and all of Alice’s chums. She will explain what truly a “pawfect” tea-party is!

Click here to purchase your tea party kit today,
while supplies last!


**US purchases only                                                  *8.75% CA tax for residents.
**Offer expires September 30th                                 *Shipping & Handling added.

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Making Homework More Fun

Throwing a tea party in the after-school mix with help sustain attention span for children's homework!

Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Tea Party Kit Only $24.99 This Month!


It is our belief that when the lazy afternoons of summer ends and a new school year arrives, it is the “pawfect” time for celebration! School bells are ringing for class to begin, as are cash registers for new clothes, books and computers.

The Storybook Tea Kit Company is keenly aware of this. Therefore, to help children transition from summertime to school time while lending help to parents, the price of  our tea party kit (Alice’s Pawfect Tea-Party™) will be only  $24.99* ** in the month of September (regular price $40.00).  This is the very same tea-party kit that was launched earlier this year, which so many of you have already read about (some have sampled too) on your favorite blog.


Alice’s Pawfect Tea-Party™ is a tea kit book complete with sumptuous chocolate, delectable cookies, candy cake and cinnamon herb tea, focusing on Chapter 7 from Lewis Carroll’s Alice in Wonderland. Our tea party kit connect kids with classic literature the old fashioned way, allowing them to dream and experience the feel of a real book while having a spot of tea.


In the story, Alice returns from wonderland and guides you back down the rabbit hole. Together you will meet the Mad Hatter and all of Alice’s chums. She will explain what truly a “pawfect” tea-party is!

Click here to purchase your tea party kit today,
while supplies last!


**US purchases only                                                  *8.75% CA tax for residents.
**Offer expires September 30th                                 *Shipping & Handling added.

 

Thursday, August 25, 2011

Themes and motifs in the 'Alice' stories

Alice's Adventures in Wonderland

Growing up
The most obvious theme that can be found in Alice's Adventures in Wonderland is the theme of growing up.
Lewis Carroll adored the unprejudiced and innocent way young children approach the world. With Alice's Adventures in Wonderland, he wanted to describe how a child sees our adult world, including all of the (in the eyes of a child silly and arbitrary) rules and social etiquette we created for ourselves, as well as the ego's and bad habits we have developed during our lives.
Alice's Adventures in Wonderland represents the child's struggle to survive in the confusing world of adults. To understand our adult world, Alice has to overcome the open-mindedness that is characteristic for children.
Apparently, adults need rules to live by. But most people adhere to those rules blindly now, without asking themselves 'why'. This leads to the incomprehensible, and sometimes arbitrary behavior that Alice experiences in Wonderland.
When entering Wonderland, Alice encounters a way of living and reasoning that is quite different from her own. A Duchess who is determined to find a moral in everything. Trials that seem to be very unjust. But during the journey through Wonderland, Alice learns to understand the adult world somewhat more. In fact, she is growing up. This is also represented by her physical changes during the story, the growing and shrinking.
More and more she starts to understand the creatures that live in Wonderland. From the Cheshire Cat she learns that 'everyone is mad here'. She learns to cope with the crazy Wonderland rules, and during the story she gets better in managing the situation. She tells the Queen of Hearts that her order is 'nonsense' and prevents her own beheading. In the end Alice has adapted and lost most of her vivid imagination that comes with childhood. She realizes what the creatures in Wonderland really are 'nothing but a pack of cards'. At this point, she has matured too much to stay in Wonderland, the world of the children, and wakes up into the 'real' world, the world of adults.


Identity
Related to the theme of 'growing up', is the motif of 'identity'.
In Wonderland, Alice struggles with the importance and instability of personal identity. She is constantly ordered to identify herself by the creatures she meets, but she herself has doubts about her identity as well.
After falling through the Rabbit hole, Alice tests her knowledge to determine whether she has become another girl. Later on, the White Rabbit mistakes her for his maid Mary Ann. When the Caterpillar asks her who she is, she is unable to answer, as she feels that she has changed several times since that morning.
Among other things, this doubt about her identity is nourished by her physical appearance. Alice grows and shrinks several times, which she finds "very confusing". The Pigeon mistakes her for a serpent, not only because she admits eating eggs, but also because of her long neck. The Cheshire Cat questions another aspect of Alice's identity. He is not questioning her name or species, he is questioning her sanity. As she has entered Wonderland, she must be mad, he states.
However, it is not only Alice's identity that is instable. Some creatures in Wonderland have instable identities as well. For example, the Duchess' baby turns into a pig and the members of the jury have to write down their names, or they will forget them.

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

words of J.K Rowling: IMAGINATION

Now you might think that I chose my second theme, the importance of imagination, because of the part it played in rebuilding my life, but that is not wholly so. Though I personally will defend the value of bedtime stories to my last gasp, I have learned to value imagination in a much broader sense. Imagination is not only the uniquely human capacity to envision that which is not, and therefore the fount of all invention and innovation. In its arguably most transformative and revelatory capacity, it is the power that enables us to empathise with humans whose experiences we have never shared.


And many prefer not to exercise their imaginations at all. They choose to remain comfortably within the bounds of their own experience, never troubling to wonder how it would feel to have been born other than they are. They can refuse to hear screams or to peer inside cages; they can close their minds and hearts to any suffering that does not touch them personally; they can refuse to know.
I might be tempted to envy people who can live that way, except that I do not think they have any fewer nightmares than I do. Choosing to live in narrow spaces leads to a form of mental agoraphobia, and that brings its own terrors. I think the wilfully unimaginative see more monsters. They are often more afraid.


For the complete version--> http://harvardmagazine.com/2008/06/the-fringe-benefits-failure-the-importance-imagination

Thursday, July 28, 2011

What Is Your Analysis?

"The study of literature is not like the study of math or science, or even history. While those disciplines are based largely upon fact, the study of literature is based upon interpretation and analysis.

There are no clear-cut answers in literature, outside of the factual information about an author's life and the basic information about setting and characterization in a piece of literature. The rest is a highly subjective reading of what an author has written; each person brings a different set of values and a different background to the reading. As a result, no two people see the piece of literature in exactly the same light, and few critics agree on everything about a book or an author.

In your course of literature study, you or your professor/teacher may come up with a different interpretation of the mood or the theme or the conflict. Your interpretation, if it can be logically supported with information contained within the piece of literature, is just as correct as [the one's you'll find here]. So is the interpretation of your teacher or professor. [...]

Literature is simply not a black or white situation; instead, there are many gray areas that are open to varying analyses. Your task is to come up with your own analysis that you can logically defend."



"-- But you make no remark?"
"I -- I didn't know I had to make one -- just then," Alice faltered out.
"You should have said, 'It's extremely kind of you to tell me all this' -- however, we'll suppose it said."

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Favorite Chilled Tea Recipe!

Sweet Iced Black Tea with Cream
This tea has lots of cream and sugar so it is definitely an indulgence. It looks pretty served in a low, clear glass.  I had lots of whipped cream from the tart recipe so this was a great companion.


4 cups boiling water
8 Irish Breakfast tea bags
1/2 cup sugar (this sounds like a lot, but the tea is really strong so it's actually okay)
Crushed ice for serving
1/2 cup heavy cream

Pour water over tea, and steep for 5 to 7 minutes.  Remove tea bags.  Bring tea and sugar to a boil in a saucepan.  Let cool.  To serve, pour 1/2 cup tea over crushed ice in 8 glasses, and then top each with 1 tablespoon cream.

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

Let Imagination Be Your Guide

  If we imagine that we can,then we can.As we think,so we become.These proverbs have become very popular across the globe.The  meaning of the messeges are very deep and clear.So we should always imagine success,positivity and a beautiful life keeping aside all the worldly odds that penetrates in to our minds during the trials and tribulations of life and making us feel dejected and powerless. and put us in agony.So we should apply our imagination to free ourselves from all the narrowness of the mind and then only we can see the light of freedom ,prosperity and success.

Releases ourselves from all shackles-Imagination is the most beneficial tool of life,which release ourselves from all the shackles and give us a lot of mental freedom and we feel happy and conteted.If we imagine that we are free in this world and the universe is our best friend then we can be free.In order to  relax our mind and make our thoughts flexible ,imagination helps us all the time and we find lot of scope for improving ourselves despite all the odds of life.Inside the four walls of a room if we imagine ourselves to be a part of the universe ,then that will give us lot of mental freedom and we can see the entire universe within ourselves.

Imagination brings success-If we want to be successful in any line of work in life,then we should imagine ourselves to be a successful person and mentally project ourselves in that position of success ,by that we will definitely achive the success.Success and failures are only two states of mind.If we think that we are successful,then we will be successful.If we think failures,then we can not taste the success.By our imagination we can achive anything and everything.We should use applied imagination and think us to be the most powerful person in the world,capable of achiving anything and everything,because all powers are within.

Imagination and our daily work-Before starting the day ,on our bed itself we should think that, that day is the most great day for us and we will achive a lot of things on that day,then definitely we will trigger our brain in tune with our imagination and can do a lot of work perfectly and can contribute to our organisation a lot and can serve the family and the society in a much better way.Our daily work no doubt is burdensome,but if we plan properly and imagine in the morning that we are doing all the works perfectly in a relaxed manner,then that imagination will help us to carry forward  our work suceesfully and at the end of the day we will feel conteted and happy and when we  will return home we will share the joy of the work front with all our family members.For this a through imaginative facukty of mind is required.

The powerful weapon-Imagination is the most powerful weapon in our hands using which we can reach to so many unknown areas and find the secret of a successful living and can know the way on which we can safely travel and can fulfill all our dreams and hopes.We can travel to so many unknown areas of life and can discover many things not only for ourselves ,but for others like the great scientists,writers,poets,scholars and the men of outstanding calibre.Imagining big we can be big.It is the weapon if utilised properly and scientifically can give us everything,which we want from our life irrespective of our age and the place.Every where we can utilise the weapon to conquer the inmical forces of life and there by lead a successful life.

Constant companion till our last breath-The imagination is the constant companion till our last breath ,which holds our hand and takes us on difficult paths and shows us the way to aquire wealth,health and happiness.It accompanies us in every situation and every experience of life.It helps us in taking important decesions in life.We are not alone,our imagination is with us.By utilising it fruitfully we can save more for our family and self and serve the society and the country unrelentlessly.
Imagination is the song of life-Imagination is the song of life.It keeps us alive and we feel fresh whether we are twenty years old or eighty years old.It motivates us and always harmonises our thought pricesses,by which we feel better and brighter every day and carry our work efficiently singing it's song.It's melodious sound makes us alive all the time and helps us to solve most of our problems at the mental level,so that in actual field of work we become successful singing the song of imagination.
The vision-Imagination gives us vision in life.Our vision becomes strong by it and we become able to see the future with our third eye and prepare ourselves to face not only the challenges of the present,but also the challenges of the future.It makes us big in every line of work.by making our vision sharp and clear It helps us to go where we want to go on the success ladder of life.
imagine big.Imagine to have a good and beautiful life.Imagining a beautiful and descent life we can have it.Imagination shows us all the treasures of the world.It keeps us in good health and harmony and we transmit all good things to family,friends and the globe.Let our imagination be strong and give us a positive philosophy of life,by which we can fullfill all our dreams and hopes.

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Tuesday, July 5, 2011

Healthy Activities To Do With Your Kids: Enjoy Life Together

Play “conversation in a jar" (or basket, or bin). Keep a container on the dinner table with blank slips of paper, and whenever you think of a cool question, write it down and toss it in. Some examples from Cox: “What’s something you can do better than your parents?” “If there were a holiday named after you, how would people celebrate it?” “Make up a nickname for everyone at the table -- nothing mean!” Once a week, use some of the questions in the basket to spark conversations at dinner.

Shake it up. Every so often, have a wacky family dinner night. “Sometimes we’ll eat with the big serving utensils, use serving platters instead of plates, and drink out of big pitchers instead of cups,” says Cohen. Or you can put food coloring in everything and make goofy food. Or just serve dinner as a picnic, on a blanket in the living room or playroom.

Have a “reading dinner.” Choose a book and read aloud while you eat. If your kids are old enough, they can take a turn. “I think the reason my kids ate all their vegetables when they were younger is that the rule was, you have to keep eating if I’m going to read!” says Cox.

Enjoy special food outings. Have a regular, simple ritual, like going for ice cream after dinner once a week, or walking to the farmer’s market on Saturday morning.

Cook together as a family. Even the youngest child can help in the kitchen by pouring or stirring. “Just remember, it’s about the process, not getting to the outcome,” says Cohen. “It’ll probably take you longer to make the cookies than if you made them yourself, and the kitchen will get a lot messier. But if you tell them to stop and let you do it because they’re making a mess, you’ve blown it. It’s about time together.”

Invite friends to a monthly “soup night.” This is about more than just your family -- it’s about connecting with a community of friends. On soup night -- maybe the first Saturday of every month? -- make a huge pot of chili or stew and let it be known that friends are welcome to drop by with a bottle of wine or a loaf of bread. “Having things like that, that sense of community, lets kids grow up in a place where they feel safe,” says Cox. “They know there are other adults who will look after them.”

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Suggested Reading

Wondering what children’s book to read next?  These resources will help to point you in the right direction!

National Education Association:  Resources and Materials (find it on ipl2: Resources by Subject – Kidspace – Reading Zone – Book Lists)
http://www.nea.org/grants/13023.htm
Part of the Read Across America program, this resource features lists of recommended children’s literature.  The program works to highlight America’s diversity through lists covering Asian-American authors, Spanish/English bilingual books, Native American authors, and African American authors.  Other lists include Teacher’s Top 100 and Author’s Favorites.  Users can also download posters for Read Across America and the Reader’s Oath.

International Reading Association:  Children’s Choices (find it on ipl2: Resources by Subject – Kidspace – Reading Zone – Book Lists)
http://www.reading.org/Resources/Booklists/ChildrensChoices.aspx
For kids, by kids.  In conjunction with the Children’s Book Council, the International Reading Association annually publishes a list of recommended children’s literature with titles selected by children themselves.  This resource features annotated versions of the lists from 1998 to the present.  The website also features fact sheets about Children’s Choices, information about the list and an application to become a Children’s Choice Team Leader, as well as pre-formatted bookmarks that can be downloaded and used to promote the resource.

Half-Remembered Children’s Books (find it on ipl2: Pathfinders)
http://www.ipl.org/div/pf/entry/76690
This ipl2 pathfinder offers strategies and resources for finding half-remembered children’s books—those books you may have enjoyed in the past, but for which you cannot recall the author or title.  Print and electronic resources are listed.
 
The Newbery Medal Homepage (find it on ipl2: Resources by Subject – Literary Awards)
http://www.ala.org/ala/mgrps/divs/alsc/awardsgrants/bookmedia/newberymedal/newberymedal.cfm
This is the homepage for the Newbery Medal, an annual award given by the American Library Association for distinguished contributions to children’s literature.  The site features a list of nominees, past winners, information about children’s literature, and links to related websites.

Thursday, June 23, 2011

(Adult) Lessons From Children’s Books

By LISA BELKIN

In his State of the Union address last night, President Obama spoke of the responsibility of parents in educating their children. “That responsibility begins not in our classrooms, but in our homes and communities,” he said. “It’s family that first instills the love of learning in a child.”
Yes. And it works the other way around, too. Teaching our children educates us anew. Becoming a parent often feels like taking an out-of-town friend on a tour, allowing you to see familiar sights through a visitor’s eyes, and asking you to remember what it is you love (or don’t) about where you live.
Lee Skallerup Bessette feels this duality keenly when reading to her two young children. Yes, she reads aloud because of all those studies that show that children do better at everything in life if their parents read aloud. And she reads aloud because it’s cozy and fun. But there are other reasons, too. As she writes in a guest post today, her children are not the only one learning from the stories.

READING MAKES MY CHILDREN (AND ME) BETTER
When I was an undergrad, I took a course in children’s literature. One of our assignments was to revisit some of the books we remembered reading as children. I was a voracious reader, and I have no real memories of reading anything other than chapter books. As I wandered the children’s chapter-book shelves at the local library, books that I had long forgotten jumped out to me: “Tales of the Fourth-Grade Nothing,” “Little House on the Prairie,” “James and the Giant Peach” and “Ramona the Brave.” I excitedly borrowed those books and more to read and write about.
There is a moment at the end of “Ramona the Brave” where Ramona is overwhelmed and frustrated by circumstances in her life. She declares that she will scream a very bad word, the only way she can think of to express the depths of her feelings to her parents. Stomping her feet, she yells: “Guts!” Her parents burst out laughing, and, rereading it as a college student, I was reduced to tears. Suddenly, I was overwhelmed with the memory of feeling at a loss for words, like no one heard me or understood how I felt. And how dare they laugh at this poor girl’s very real attempt at releasing her frustrations?
Almost 15 years later I am now the mother of two young kids. My daughter is still too young for chapter books, but she recently discovered my old childhood copy of “Alexander and the Terrible, No Good, Very Bad Day.” We read it and, like any good piece of literature, I can use the opportunity to talk about a bad day she may have had. But I am also reminded as a parent how completely overwhelming a bad day can seem to a child, as trivial as the events may seem to me as an adult. We have also repeatedly read the classics “I Was So Mad” and “All by Myself,” which I use as reminders as to not only how frustrating life can be to a child, but also how wondrous common events and milestones are to that same child.
Parents need to be reminded of the uncomfortable realities of a child’s perception of the world. One way that I try to empathize with my children is through the stories we read together. I might lose my patience with them, but I am reminded of their worldview through the books, reminded of my own childhood full of my own ups and downs. If I can remember what it felt like when I, like Ramona, was laughed at or seemingly dismissed by my parents, then maybe I can try to do better for my own kids.
But the stories also remind me (and hopefully my kids) that no parent is perfect, in fiction or reality. I think, in our quest to be the perfect parent, this is something we need to be reminded of more regularly. Ramona’s parents are loving people who are dealing with two demanding children with different temperaments the best they can. The Little Critter’s parents, in turn, set limits (no petting the fish or juggling eggs) which are not unreasonable, no matter how much he may want to transgress them. Alexander’s day is truly awful, and his mom’s day, to me, now, doesn’t seem to be going that much better, either. That being said, I can’t bring myself to read the line in “The Tale of Tom Kitten” where his mother “smacks” them for being naughty.
So now, when my son, who has yet to start talking, throws a tantrum because I can’t figure out what he wants, and I want to shout out of frustration myself, I’ll try to remember that, for him, it is his own terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day. And if I forget, I’ll remember Alexander’s mother’s advice: Some days are like that. For both parents and kids. We know, because we can read about it together.
What children’s books teach you parenting lessons? Suggestions are welcome. As you can see from my children’s reading list, our library tends towards the “classics”; updating would probably be a good idea.

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

Why parents should find alternative entertainment to TV for their children

Many children are obsessed with watching TV. It is the only thing they do in their free time, and this can lead to laziness and forgetfulness. When a child comes home from school and turns the television on, it is easy to lose track of time, and neglect responsibilities such as doing homework or chores. When this becomes a habit, it is often hard to break, and eventually a child will begin to suffer in school because of not doing their school work at home.


Finding alternative entertainment to TV for kids and encouraging them to express their creativity instead of stifling their abilities to be themselves without the influence of television will benefit them in life. It will help them to develop social skills and teach them to think for themselves. Watching too much television may lead kids to take on the opinions of the others, or act upon the characters in the shows that they watch, instead of interacting and forming their own opinions. 
When children get accustomed to watching television day in and day out, it not only becomes a habit, some kids have a hard time trying to function without the TV. They find it hard to sleep without the noise, and they leave it on when doing their homework or chores. When watching TV while doing other jobs, it becomes a distraction. At the same time, it also makes it hard to focus on the task at hand.

-Kat Ballew
Children Studies